Do you know the problem of solutions?

Have you ever forgotten the problem itself thinking about solution? Sometimes the mind creates problem which doesn’t even exist in real.Naturally if mind creates problem then let it be the one which is responsible for finding solution. We have the problem; we have the solution. But these two don’t come easily at same place at same time. And the worst part comes here, when we go for searching problem of solution.

Even a minor problem you tend to share with your nearest people. But is it really fruitful to ask someone to help? Here are reasons why we shouldn’t expect solutions from others:

1. They won’t get you,in what sequence of events problem raised.
2. People are too quick to judge you .you will expose your all weakness to them making yourself highly vulnerable.
3. They will advice you as a best option to follow in which their suffering role is least.
4. In some cases sharing your problem, create joyful environment to them. They couldn’t be happier to see you in trouble.
5. They might sell you their emotional products as remedies for your hurdles.
6. You could be burnt for alternate power. You are turning into ashes and rest of them receiving warmth.
7. They could rather create extra problems and you get stuck in a puzzle.

Dealing similar kind of problem together sounds good but risking all with a compromised idea is worst. Your increasing dependencies on other will certainly going to deceive you sooner or later. You have come a long way; you can’t even breathe without being advised. Today you owe and appreciate others more than yourself. And you have to zoom in into yourself.

When we have problem we get troubled. When we have solution again, we get troubled.Problem itself isn’t the problem, the problem is the way we treat with it. No one can handle your problem  better than you.  So face the problem; don’t  Facebook them.

Taking your problem by yourself has tendency to increase creativity, confidence level and self respect. Depending too much on others we are reverting civilization. Enjoying your comfort zone surely won’t bring something special that shines future. Push yourself don’t make them feel as if you are a burden.